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Dear Golfers,

On Tuesday we talked about attention and how your brain's two caddie system can either make or break your round. Today, let's dive into something that's probably sabotaging your performance before you even address the ball: your nervous system.

Here's the thing about us golfers and our nervous systems: we're walking around like broken thermostats, either running way too hot or way too cold, rarely finding that perfect middle ground where the magic happens. You know the feeling. You're either standing over a putt with hands shaking like you've had six espressos, or you're so relaxed you might as well be sleepwalking through your swing.

Over the years I have seen the same pattern everywhere. The players who consistently perform their best have learned to find their nervous system sweet spot, while everyone else is either too amped up or too checked out.

The research from scientists like Dr. Yuri Hanin and his Individual Zones of Optimal Functioning work, along with neuroscientist Andrew Huberman's research on autonomic nervous system regulation, shows something game changing. Elite performers don't just "stay calm" or "get pumped up." They find their personal sweet spot between two competing systems in their nervous system.

When Nervous Systems Go Hilariously Wrong on the Golf Course

Picture this: It’s Saturday morning at the club championship. A 27-year-old trust fund kid is standing over a 6-foot putt to finally beat a group of 65-year-olds who’ve been running the place since before he was born. His heart is pounding so loud he’s sure they can hear it rattling the martini glasses back in the clubhouse. His hands are shaking like he’s trying to thread a needle during an earthquake while riding a mechanical bull. Meanwhile, his brain is helpfully replaying every three-putt he’s had since middle school.

Then there’s the other end of the spectrum. The local muni guy who’s smoked three blunts before making the turn. He’s chill, he’s loose, he’s “in the flow”… and he’s also about as sharp as a marshmallow. His swing tempo is smoother than a jazz saxophone, but his focus is hanging out somewhere in another zip code. He’s so relaxed he probably forgot there’s a scorecard involved.

Here’s the truth: your nervous system isn’t broken. It just hasn’t been trained to find the right frequency. Most of us are either torching the meat until it’s charcoal or leaving it so raw it’s still mooing. The real magic happens at that perfect medium heat, where things cook through just right.

Your Body's Two Competing Operating Systems

Stanford neuroscientist Andrew Huberman has done incredible research on how your autonomic nervous system actually works, and it turns out you're basically walking around with two competing systems running in your body.

System #1: The Sympathetic (Your "Fight or Flight" Mode) This is your brain and body's accelerator pedal, also known as your "fight or flight" response. When it kicks in, your body literally prepares for battle or escape. Your adrenal glands start dumping adrenaline and noradrenaline into your bloodstream like someone just hit the turbo button.

Your heart rate takes off faster than your scorecard after a trip to the water hazards. Blood gets pumped away from your digestive system and straight to your major muscle groups. Your pupils dilate like you just saw your ball heading toward the cart path, giving you tunnel vision to focus on threats. Or that pin tucked behind the bunker. Your breathing gets shallow and rapid, your muscles tense up, and your liver starts dumping glucose into your bloodstream for quick energy.

This system evolved to help our ancestors outrun saber-toothed tigers. But now it fires up when you're standing over a 3-foot putt with money on the line. It's phenomenal for generating power and intensity, but here's the catch. Too much and you become a jittery mess who couldn't hit water if you fell out of a boat, let alone make solid contact with a driver.

Gonna take a wild guess and say Mike was in sympa here…

System #2: The Parasympathetic (Your "Rest and Digest" Mode) This is your brain and body's brake pedal, commonly called "rest and digest" mode. When this system takes over, your body shifts into recovery and maintenance mode. Your vagus nerve releases acetylcholine, which works like a natural chill pill throughout your system.

Your heart rate drops down to Sunday morning pace. Your breathing deepens like you're meditating with monks. Your muscles relax more than a retiree in a La-Z-Boy. Blood flow returns to your digestive system, your saliva production increases, and your body starts focusing on repair and recovery. 

This system is designed to help you recover, heal, and conserve energy. Basically everything your body does when it thinks the coast is clear and there are no tigers around. It's perfect for steady hands and smooth tempo, but too much and you lose the alertness and intensity needed for peak performance. You'll be so mellow you might forget to actually hit the ball.

Here's where most golfers completely screw up. They think they need to choose one or the other. They either try to stay completely calm (all parasympathetic) or get completely fired up (all sympathetic). It's like trying to drive a car with either the gas pedal or the brake pedal pressed to the floor. Neither approach works for consistent performance.

The secret that elite golfers have figured out? You need both systems working together in the right balance for your individual optimal zone. If you've ever heard the trendy marketing term "flow state," this is really what it is. The perfect balance between these two nervous systems. When you're in flow, you have just enough sympathetic activation to stay alert and engaged, combined with just enough parasympathetic tone to stay calm and controlled. It's not some mystical state. It's optimal nervous system balance.

The Science Behind Your Personal Performance Sweet Spot

Dr. Yuri Hanin spent decades researching something called Individual Zones of Optimal Functioning. His work with Olympic athletes revealed something fascinating. Every elite performer has their own unique arousal level where they perform their best. Some golfers perform optimally when they're slightly more activated (higher sympathetic tone), while others perform best when they're slightly more relaxed (higher parasympathetic tone).

But here's the kicker. The best performers don't just stumble into their zone accidentally. They've learned to recognize their optimal state and can recreate it on demand. Research published in the Journal of Applied Sport Psychology shows that athletes who can control their arousal levels consistently outperform those who leave it to chance.

Think about it this way. Tiger Woods in his prime had a completely different optimal arousal level than, say, Fred Couples. Tiger was intense, focused, almost predatory in his approach. Like a lion stalking a gazelle, except the gazelle was a golf ball and somehow always ended up exactly where he wanted it. He thrived on pressure and loved the big moments, but he could also dial it back and stay calm when precision was required.

Fred was smooth, relaxed, effortless looking. So chill he looked like he might take a nap between shots and still shoot 67. "Boom Boom" never seemed rushed or stressed, just pure tempo and trust. But when he needed to amp up for a crucial shot or a final round charge, he could access that intensity without losing his smooth rhythm.

And then there was John Daly. Daly operated on his own set of rules entirely. He'd show up having driven all night from a casino, drink Diet Cokes on the tee, and somehow still bomb drives 320 yards. But what made him special wasn't the chaos. It was that he could find his zone regardless of external circumstances and had both the fire for big moments and the touch for delicate shots. Interestingly, alcohol initially suppresses your sympathetic nervous system (which might explain the smooth swings), but then rebounds with increased anxiety later. 

All three found their individual sweet spot between calm and alert, but those sweet spots looked completely different. The problem is that most golfers try to copy someone else's optimal state instead of finding their own. It's like wearing someone else's prescription glasses and wondering why everything looks blurrier than a Phil Mickelson rules explanation.

Heart Rate Variability: Your Body's Performance Dashboard

Now here's something fascinating. Researchers have discovered that you can actually measure your nervous system balance using something called Heart Rate Variability (HRV). This isn't just your heart rate. It's the variation in time between each heartbeat, and it's like having a real time dashboard for your autonomic nervous system.

Studies published in Frontiers in Psychology show that elite athletes with higher HRV scores perform more consistently under pressure. When your sympathetic and parasympathetic systems are working together instead of fighting each other, your HRV increases, and your performance becomes more stable.

We'll dive deep into HRV monitoring and training in a future edition, but for now, just know that your nervous system balance is measurable and trainable. You don't have to guess whether you're in your optimal zone anymore.

The Breathing Protocol That Actually Works

Forget everything you've heard about "just take deep breaths." Most breathing advice is about as useful as a chocolate teapot or golf tips from your brother in law who shoots 95 but insists he "used to be scratch." Here's what actually works, based on research by Dr. Jack Feldman at UCLA and practical application by performance coaches working with elite athletes.

The 4-7-8 Coherent Breathing Protocol: • Inhale for 4 counts through your nose • Hold for 7 counts • Exhale for 8 counts through your mouth • Repeat 4 to 6 cycles

This isn't some ancient breathing mysticism. This specific pattern activates your parasympathetic nervous system while maintaining enough alertness to keep you sharp. Research shows it can lower cortisol levels and improve heart rate variability within minutes.

But here's the key. You need to practice this when you're NOT on the golf course first. Your nervous system needs to learn this pattern when you're calm so it can access it when you're under pressure.

The Between Shot Reset: After each shot, take one coherent breath cycle while walking to your next shot. This prevents arousal buildup throughout the round and keeps you in your optimal zone instead of gradually sliding into either anxiety or complacency.

Your Brother-In-Law

Pre-Round Nervous System Calibration

Elite golfers don't just show up and hope their nervous system cooperates. They have specific protocols to get into their optimal state before they even hit the first tee. Here's what actually works:

The 10-Minute Activation Protocol:

  • 3 minutes of light physical movement (walking, gentle stretching)

  • 4 minutes of coherent breathing

  • 3 minutes of specific visualization (we'll cover this in detail)

Research by Dr. Robin Vealey shows that athletes who follow consistent pre-performance routines have significantly lower anxiety levels and better performance consistency.

The Nervous System Check-In: Before your round, rate your current activation level on a scale of 1-10:

  • 1-3: Too flat, need more activation

  • 4-6: In the sweet spot for most golfers

  • 7-10: Too amped up, need more regulation

If you're below 4, do some light physical activation. If you're above 6, focus on the breathing protocol. This simple assessment can prevent you from spending 18 holes fighting your own nervous system.

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The Grip Pressure Secret That Tour Players Know

Here's something most golfers never consider: your grip pressure is directly connected to your nervous system state. When you're too sympathetic (too activated), your grip pressure increases unconsciously. When you're too parasympathetic (too relaxed), your grip becomes inconsistent.

Research published in the Journal of Sports Sciences found that optimal grip pressure (about 4-5 on a scale of 10) correlates directly with nervous system balance. Tour players use grip pressure as a real-time biofeedback system for their arousal level.

The Grip Pressure Protocol:

  • Before each shot, consciously set your grip pressure at a 4-5

  • If it feels like you're squeezing tighter, take one coherent breath

  • If it feels too loose, take one deeper breath and engage your core slightly

This gives you a simple, measurable way to monitor and adjust your nervous system state throughout your round.

If your forearms look like this when gripping the club, lets tone it down a touch

Recovery Between Shots: The Hidden Performance Enhancer

Most golfers think recovery happens after the round. Elite performers know it happens between every single shot. The time between your shots is when you either maintain your optimal state or gradually drift out of it.

The 30-Second Reset Protocol:

  • After your shot, take 10 seconds to process the result without judgment

  • Spend 10 seconds looking at the horizon (activates parasympathetic reset)

  • Use 10 seconds for one coherent breath cycle

This protocol, based on research by Dr. Jim Loehr, prevents the gradual buildup of either anxiety or complacency that destroys consistency over 18 holes.

Studies show that golfers who actively manage their recovery between shots maintain more stable performance throughout their rounds compared to those who just walk to the next shot without any system.

Your Nervous System Upgrade Action Plan

Here's how to start training your nervous system like an elite golfer:

This Week: Learn the 4-7-8 breathing protocol. Practice it for 5 minutes every morning when you're calm, not stressed.

This Month: Start doing nervous system check-ins before your rounds. Rate your activation level 1-10 and adjust accordingly using breathing or light physical movement.

This Season: Implement the 30-second reset protocol between shots. Monitor your grip pressure as a real-time feedback system for your nervous system state.

Remember, your nervous system doesn't care that you three-putted the last hole or your last drive went so far right it needed a passport. It's ready to find your optimal performance zone the moment you start giving it the right training.

Your nervous system is either your secret weapon or your biggest liability on every single shot. The golfers who learn to find their sweet spot between calm and alert will always outperform those who leave it to chance, regardless of their swing technique or natural talent.

The revolution in golf performance isn't waiting for some new training aid or mental guru. It's available right now, hiding in the sophisticated simplicity of how you balance your own autonomic nervous system.

Time to stop fighting your own biology and start using it like a performance tool. 

Housekeeping: On Tuesday we’ll have a regular edition of The Cog on a new topic. Next Friday, though… get ready for a full Ryder Cup Mental Performance Breakdown! I just need a little extra time to study the film due to some traveling. Appreciate you all!

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